There’s no easy way to lose a beloved pet. Whether it happened suddenly or after a long illness, the absence can be overwhelming—and sometimes, others don’t fully understand how deep that loss really goes.

At Vets to Pets, we’ve had the privilege of walking alongside families through the most difficult moments, and we’ve seen firsthand that grief after pet loss is real, valid, and deeply personal. This month, during Pet Memorial Month, we want to create space for that grief and share a few thoughts on what the process may look like—and how to care for yourself through it.

What Grief Can Look Like

Everyone grieves differently. Some people feel a wave of sadness and then slowly return to routine. Others may find themselves crying unexpectedly, avoiding certain rooms, or feeling emotionally numb.

Common experiences include:

  • Deep sadness, guilt, or regret
  • A feeling of emptiness at home
  • Trouble sleeping or concentrating
  • Loss of appetite
  • Anxiety about other pets or loved ones
  • Wondering if you did the “right” thing
If you chose euthanasia for your pet, you may also be wrestling with doubt or guilt—even if you know it was the most compassionate decision. These feelings are normal. They are part of the grieving process, not a sign that you did something wrong.

Helping Children Understand

Children often form incredibly strong bonds with their pets. Helping them process loss can be challenging, but honesty and openness go a long way. Consider:

  • Using clear language
  • Encouraging them to draw pictures or write letters to their pet
  • Allowing them to participate in a home memorial or goodbye
  • Reassuring them that grief is okay and looks different for everyone
If you need help guiding your family through this, we’re happy to connect you with pet loss resources and books designed for kids.

Supporting Other Pets in the Home

Pets grieve too. Some animals will look for their missing companion, seem withdrawn, or even experience appetite or behavior changes. Offering extra affection, maintaining routine, and giving them time to adjust can help them feel secure.

Let us know if you notice any concerning signs—we’re here to support them as well.

You Don’t Have to Go Through It Alone

There’s no timeline for grief. Some days will be harder than others. But the love you shared with your pet was real—and honoring that love means allowing yourself the space to feel your loss.

If you’re struggling, there are wonderful pet loss counselors, support groups, and hotlines available. We’re also here to talk, listen, and help you navigate what’s next. At Vets to Pets, we’re here for you – no matter what.