Long after your pet is gone, their presence remains. It shows up in the quiet spaces of your home, in memories shared over dinner, in the shape of routines that still feel like they belong to them.

During Pet Memorial Month, we’re reminded that healing from pet loss isn’t about forgetting. It’s about finding ways to carry that love forward, gently and meaningfully, into daily life.

Here are a few ideas for keeping your pet’s memory close—without reopening the wound every time.

Keep Their Memory Alive in Routine

If your dog always waited at the front door, or your cat curled up on the windowsill at sunset, it may feel strange when those moments come and go without them. You might:

  • Light a small candle during those times
  • Speak their name or share a memory
  • Write down one thing you’re grateful for about them
Grief can sit beside joy—and these tiny acts of remembrance can help you hold both at once.

Include Them in Family Traditions

Many families choose to include their pet’s memory in holidays, celebrations, or anniversaries. You could:

  • Hang an ornament on your holiday tree
  • Bake a treat in their honor each year
  • Include a photo or candle at family gatherings
  • Sponsor a shelter pet adoption in their nameThese small gestures remind us that love doesn’t end—it just changes form.

Make Something Lasting

If you haven’t yet, consider creating a keepsake to hold onto:

  • A custom piece of jewelry
  • A printed photo book
  • A painted portrait or paw print art
  • A garden stone or wind chime in their favorite outdoor spot
Physical reminders can offer comfort during moments when memories feel distant.

Let Grief Move at Its Own Pace

Most importantly, be kind to yourself. Some days will feel lighter. Others will feel unexpectedly heavy. Both are okay.

At Vets to Pets, we see pet loss every day—but that doesn’t make it any easier. What it does is deepen our commitment to honoring every life we touch, even after the goodbyes. If you need support or someone to talk to, we’re always here.

Because even when they’re gone, our pets are still part of the family.